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Book Release – The TAF Omnibus: Stories & Poems

I’m so excited to share my first published work with you! Many of you know I’ve been writing a novel, a near-future sci-fi book. It’s taking far longer than I ever expected it to take. I’m still working on it, but in the meantime I’ve got something else you can enjoy of mine! My local writer’s group has put out an anthology of short stories and poems, and a story of mine is included! Get a sneak peek here!

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Dealing with Overwhelm in the New Year

I love the beginning of the year, and making New Year’s resolutions, and feeling excited about all the things I can accomplish in the coming year. Dreams are a beautiful thing, and I love embracing them at the start of the New Year when it feels like I have all the time in the world to make them happen. I make resolutions every year. My goals for this year are:

  1. Finish my first novel and self-publish it.
  2. Gain more clients and increase the number of projects I take on.

I begin January with big dreams, but often a few weeks later the reality hits: goals are hard. Running a business is hard. Finding time to ‘level up’ and do even more when you work fulltime and have a family is difficult. Pretty soon I start getting frustrated that I’m not meeting my goals fast enough, and that there’s too much to do and not enough time to get it all done. I mean, when my to-do list feels like it’s always getting longer instead of shorter it’s hard to stay positive.

I get overwhelmed, and start to wonder if my goals are possible and my dreams achievable.

That’s when I need to step back and remember that overwhelm is a feeling and not my actual reality.

For me overwhelm happens for a few reasons: feeling like I have too much to do and not enough time to do it, feeling like the task is too big to accomplish, and having too many options and not knowing which one to pick. Each of these problems has solutions, but when I feel overwhelmed it’s sometimes hard to remember that. I have to remind myself to step out of the loop of worrying-but-not-acting and make an actual plan. Making an achievable plan of action is the best way to get rid of overwhelm and actually meet my goals. So let’s look at each of these reasons for overwhelm and how they relate to my goals.

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Bluehost Website Tutorial

Having a web presence is essential for writers today. It gives your readers a centralized place to learn about you and find your writing. If you’re a freelancer it gives editors and potential clients a place to view your clips and a way to contact you. It allows you to grow a mailing list by giving your readers a place to sign up for it. Your website is the one place on the internet that you control, and more control means more ways to grow your reader base and business.

If you’re looking to start a website or blog but don’t know how, look no further! I’ve got easy instructions to help you get set up with Bluehost.com, and if you use my affiliate link you also get a discount! You can follow the tutorial without using my affiliate link, but if you do it means I get a commission from your purchase, at no cost to you, and you get a discount on web hosting:




There are several reasons to go with Bluehost for your website: They are the #1 web hosting service recommended by WordPress.com They have one-click WordPress installation so you don’t have to worry at all about the technical details. They have excellent customer support, so if anything goes wrong with the process you can call or chat with them and they’ll get it fixed ASAP. They have a ton of themes to make your website look amazing without you having to do any web coding at all.

It will help to have an idea of what you want your domain name to be before you go into this process. Your domain name is the name of your website, like www.example.com. It has to be unique, so all names are registered to ensure only one of them exists. Here are some tips:

  1. Have a list of names ready before starting. Don’t try and find out if someone else has that name already by typing it into the search bar of your web browser or by checking on GoDaddy.com before you’re ready to buy! Some believe those searches are collected and sold to people who then quickly buy the names and try to sell them back to you at a profit. This may or may not be an urban myth, but why take that chance? Just write out every version you may want to use and order them from most to least desired. That way you’re ready when you go in.
  2. Decide if you’re going to buy all versions of your name possible, or just one. Meaning, are you going to buy the .com, .net, and .org? There are a wide variety of suffixes to choose from now, so do a little research on how much it costs to register each domain name and what different suffixes are available.

You can register your name through many different companies. You can register a name and never actually build a website with it, or register it as part of the process of actually setting up a website. In order to set up a website you have to have a server to run your website on. Most people rent space on a commercial server so they don’t have the complications of setting up their own server. This is called purchasing web hosting. You then put together the code that determines the way your website looks.

In this tutorial I’ll show you how to register your name and purchase web hosting through Bluehost.com, then use one of the many free themes included with your plan to style your website. Don’t worry, you don’t have to know how to code anything! Bluehost automates almost the whole process so it’s all as easy as point and click. The longest parts are generally picking your name and then picking and customizing your theme. You can have the initial setup done in under a half hour, but it will likely take you longer to customize your theme and start adding content.

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